Yep we all have those Saturday nights where we sit in our bed rooms sad and broken because we sit there and reminisce on the Saturdays we spent with that special someone that’s no longer in your life
Am I the only one on here with insomnia? I hope so I hope none of you have it it sucks.
I doubt any of you still go on this blog but for those who do sorry I haven’t been on or posting tips things have been a little crazy on my end…I almost deleted this blog completely but I don’t know I’m thinking I may change the whole theme entirely what do you guys think?
Not my pic I don’t know it’s true origin to give the person credit but if u I would like some of my followers to tell me there story
Well it all depends on why you guys broke up in the first place?
Sorry to respond so late I’ve been busy and I didn’t think anyone came on this blog anymore lol…I can tell by the way you were typing you’re really stressed out about it and you’re worried. In my book cheating is unforgivable because when you really care about someone you wouldn’t cheat on them. And if he comes back I wouldn’t take him back if I were you its not worth it. Don’t try to work it out don’t plead with him just let it go. There are way more people out there that are better don’t settle for someone that doesn’t respect you enough to stay faithful to you. You are better then that. Don’t be sad ok its for the better to be honest. I hope this helped and I hope everything works out for you if you have any more questions or thoughts message me again if you want to I’ll try not to respond late again.
Depending on how long you guys have been together your world is going to seem like its falling apart. But I will say your one mistake was begging for him to come back. Sometimes you have to let them come back on there own. It’s a test to see if they really care about you or not. If he really feels that it won’t work then don’t force him because it will push him away. People don’t really liked to be forced into doing something they’re not sure they want to do. I know you miss him but you may have to start creating some distance between you guys. Maybe he’ll comeback and and maybe he won’t but don’t beg for him don’t tell him that you desperately want to be together with him or you miss him so much. Show him that you’ll always be there for him when he needs you. You never know maybe one day you’ll be helping him with his problems and he’ll realize that he wants to be with you again. But overall you have to be strong you have to accept the fact that it is over. But maybe in the future you guys will get back together you never know you have to be optimistic about these things. Message me again if you have anymore questions or you still aren’t quite sure on what you should do. I can be confusing sometimes lol.
No problem I’m just glad I could help :)
It sounds like he could be telling the truth but i can’t really say yes or no because i wasn’t there and i dont’t know him but you can do 2 things if you don’t want to leave him. One is to take a break from him. Tell him you he needs to get back on his feet and get himself together then come back. The other option is to talk to him and lay down some ground rules put your foot down and show him that your not a person to be taken lightly. Im not saying to be mean just show him that you don’t really need him to be happy. Show him you’re a strong independent woman. If you honestly feel like he’s going to commit suicide or he’s showing signs then honestly maybe you should stay because if he does kill himself, God forbid, that is going to make you feel like it was your fault when it wasn’t but thats nota good feelings to have. But overall just give it time if he does change thats great but if he doesnt then you can’t keep giving him chances you have to put your foot down. Message me again if anything happens or you just need someone to talk to ill be here :)
Yes alcohol can some what alter your decisions but he shouldn’t of put himself in that situation to begin with. If you’re dating someone you shouldnt be getting drunk with another woman. And he did cheated twice there’s no excuse for that it wasn’t an accident. This may sound harsh but you don’t accidentally stick your penis in someone. He no doubt wanted to do it. I’m sorry but you don’t have sex with someone you don’t want to have sex with. I’m not gonna fill your head with all this bulls@%t that he’s going to become your knight in shining armor and you’re going to ride off into the sunset. Save that for Disney. A lot of men say they are going to change, they are going to be a brand new man just give them time they’ll change. Very few guys might actually change. The rest just say it so you won’t leave them. Then they’ll do a little nice things here and there to get back on your nice side. Then you think they just all of a sudden had this revelation when they really didn’t. But you don’t want to leave them so you just get use to it and live with it. Don’t be one of those girls. Alot of people have a first love but they’re not with them. It hurts alot ill tell you that much but you have to think about whats best for you. Whats gonna hurt more you not being with him or everytime he goes out you’re constantly wondering if he’s cheating on you. Stress at a young age isnt good at all. And whats a relationnship without trust, without trust there is no love. But i honestly think you should just walk away. If someone cheats on you thats not forgivable. And it happened twice so what does that say you know. Message me again if you want to talk about it more ill always respond.